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Our comprehensive guide to using Tinder

Tinder has more competition than ever from the likes of Hinge, Bumble, and Thursday, but it’s still the biggest dating app in the world and it doesn’t look like it’s going anywhere.

Over time the app has added plenty of features, adding layers upon layers on top of the simple swiping that made it popular. That means it’s a lot more powerful – and safe – than before, but a little more confusing too.

Whether you’re a Tinder veteran looking to upgrade their profile, or an app dating newbie who just wants to know how everything works, our comprehensive guide to all things Tinder is where you need to be.

What is Tinder?

Tinder is an online dating app that matches couples based on their attraction to one another. It alerts you to other Tinder users who fall within a specified age range, gender, and distance of your location, and it lets you know whether you have any mutual friends.

You decide whether or not you like the look of a person based on their photos and profile: if you do, great; if you don’t, they’ll never know. If you’re both interested then Tinder’s messaging function offers you a private chat thread in which to talk and get to know each other better.

It’s a bit like being introduced to the hot friend of a friend in a bar, but it removes the clumsy, drunken matchmaker and the want-to-curl-up-and-die cringeworthiness from the equation.

How do I get Tinder?

Tinder is available as a free app for Android or iOS; just download it from the App Store or Google Play . Alternatively you can use it in your web browsers – just sign up at Tinder.com .

Previously you would need a Facebook account to log in, but now you can create an account using only a phone number. That will prevent you from using some of the app’s features though, such as pulling photos directly from Facebook, and showing you when you have mutual friends or Likes with another user.

How do I use Tinder?

Tinder is a really simple app to use. Just download it, set up an account, specify the gender and age range of the people you’d like to meet, and how far you’re prepared to travel to meet them. When Tinder finds people who match those criteria it places cards on your screen that show a large photo of the person; tap this to see their full profile along with more photos.

Below the picture is a heart icon and a cross; tap the heart if you like them and the cross if you don’t, or swipe to the right if you like them, and to the left if you don’t. If you like someone who also likes you Tinder will tell you that a match has been made and opens up a chatroom.

You’ll also have to fill out your own profile. Tinder can pull some information from your Facebook profile, such as your job and education, but you can choose what to display and write out a short bio of yourself. You also need to pick a few photos to include – you can pull these either from your phone’s image library or your Facebook account.

Tinder will also do its best to help you out thanks to a feature called Smart Photos. If you choose to activate it, it will continually assess how favourably people have responded to each of your profile photos, and automatically order them so that your most popular photo appears first – taking out all the guesswork as to which photo you look best in.

You can also link your Tinder to both Instagram and Spotify. The former will show your most recent Instagram photos on your profile while the latter will let you show off some of your staple songs.

Why aren’t I getting any interest on Tinder?

Tinder is a two-way street – you can’t just sign up, forget about the app and hope people will come to you. Because the messaging system is opened up only when both parties have confirmed their interest, you won’t know anyone has liked you unless you also like them. So if you want to see results, open up the Tinder app and get involved.

If you’re swiping a lot but still not getting any love, you may need to tweak your profile. Make sure you’ve filled it out as fully as possible, and if you’re willing show it to friends to get their feedback on your photos and what you’ve written.

What happens if I like someone and they don’t like me?

There’s no need to hide your face in shame. The only way someone will know if you’ve liked them on Tinder is if they like you too (unless you opt to use a Super Like, or they’re a paid member – more on that below), then a match is made and the messaging function between the pair of you becomes active. So set your sights as high as you like – no-one will call you out on it.

Will someone know if I don’t like them?

Likewise, Tinder won’t tell someone who fancies you that the feeling isn’t mutual. That person might eventually work it out when several weeks have passed and a match hasn’t been made, but the chances are they’ve liked a few people in that time and won’t be pinning all their hopes on you. It’s a very gentle way of letting down those in whom you’re not interested without hurting their feelings.

Will I meet a psycho on Tinder?

Only the people you’ve liked are allowed to contact you on Tinder, so there’s no chance that you’ll get a bunch of totally unsolicited messages, and those users you have allowed can be blocked if they get annoying or a bit creepy. The only exception is that Platinum members have the option to send an unsolicited message – but only one, and only 140 characters, so the risk is still limited.

But you do still need to apply the same rules on Tinder as you would with any online dating site: you’ll never really know who you’re agreeing to meet until you do so..

Safety features

Since launching Tinder has added several new safety and security features to the app to help users feel comfortable using the app without risk.

First up, accounts can now have their photos verified , with a blue tick appearing next to the user’s name if they have been. Verification is optional, and sees users asked to recreate a series of prompts in a video to prove who they are, with ‘human-assisted AI’ then checking that those photos match the photos on the user’s profile.

Verification originally worked using photos, but was upgraded to videos in 2023 – and everyone who previously verified themselves the old way will eventually be asked to re-verify by video to ensure the system can be trusted.

It won’t solve the problem of users who’ve changed a bit since their photos, but it should help reduce the risk of catfishing on the service.

To help things further, the Explore tab – more on that below – allows you to only browse users who’ve gone through verification. You can also go into ‘Message Settings’ to restrict who can message you to only include verified users for an extra layer of security.

More advanced ID verification is also rolling out worldwide. This involves checking people’s photos and details against government ID, for an extra level of reassurance that they are who they claim to be.

Tinder says that ID verification will remain optional for now – acknowledging that for some marginalised communities verification may be a genuine safety risk – except for countries and regions that require it.

Depending on what country you’re in – it’s only in ‘select markets’ – Tinder has also added a feature that will try to detect offensive messages. If you’ve received a message flagged by the system, it will ask you if the message bothered you, and if so will report the user.

Finally, in the US Tinder has paired with Noonlight to give Tinder users free access to the security app. You can access Noonlight through the same menu that lets you attach GIFs or images to messages, but will need to register and connect your accounts. Once you do, it will allow you to record any plans to meet a new partner within Noonlight from Tinder.

If an emergency then comes up during the date, you open the separate Noonlight app and hold a button to trigger the emergency. The app will ask for a PIN to delete the alert, and also try to call and text you, and if there’s no response then the app phones emergency services. Users with Noonlight connected also get a Noonlight badge on their profile – hopefully a deterrent for anyone who would be a threat. 

Tinder features

In addition to the basics and security stuff we’ve detailed above, Tinder has added more complex options to fill out your profile and meet new people. Here’s what you need to know.

One of Tinder’s more recent additions is Prompts. These are quick conversation-starters that can be added directly onto your profile – much like many older dating sites and few other dating apps use. 

Examples include:

• The one thing I won’t take for granted again…
• I’m talking to my pet about…
• Why hasn’t someone invented…

You can pick a few prompts to add to your profile, and write your own answers to them for matches to argue with you about in chat. They’ll appear mixed in with your photos on your profile, so people will see your prompts as they swipe through your pics.

To find prompts, tap the profile icon in the top-right of the app, then go to ‘Add media’ and ‘Text prompt’. Tinder will also keep adding new prompts over time, so check back every now and then for new options.

For a while Tinder allowed users to upload two-second ‘Loops’, but it’s now replaced these with the option to add longer videos to your Tinder profile – up to 15 seconds.

You can add up to nine videos, which sit on your profile within your photos and prompts, and you also upload them from the ‘Add media’ section of your profile settings.

You’ll get the option to trim and crop your video as you upload it, so don’t worry if the video you want to use is a little too long, or if it needs to be cropped to fit a phone screen well.

Super Likes and Boosts

Since Tinder launched it’s added a few new features to give hopeful singles some more options. First up are ‘Super Likes’ – you can Super Like someone by tapping the blue star icon or swiping up on their profile – unlike a regular attempt to match, this will immediately send them a notification that they’ve been Super Liked and the chance to see your profile.

It’s a more upfront way to try and match with someone, but be warned that some users can see it as slightly  too forward. With a free account you can also only use one Super Like per day, so use it wisely.

One of the other features is Boost. This is a paid option that pushes your profile to the top of the queue of every Tinder user nearby for 30 minutes, making it much more likely you’ll get matches over the next half hour. Boosts aren’t cheap, but you can get them at a discount by buying packs of five or ten. You can find the Boosts by tapping the purple lightning bolt icon.

Explore is a newer section of the Tinder app, only introduced in 2021 – though it includes some slightly older features. You’ll find it to the right of the main swipe tab on the bottom bar.

The Explore section gives you new ways to find matches beyond simply swiping. It includes limited time events like Vibes and Hot Takes – more on them below – but also ways to access more focussed queues of potential matches.

The first is by interest – you’ll see stacks of users based on terms like ‘Foodies’, ‘Thrill Seekers’, or ‘Early Birds’, giving you the chance to only swipe through users that match specific interests or personalities.

You’ll also have the option to only swipe through profiles that have gone through photo verification in case you’re worried about getting catfished. You’ll still see  all users in your main feed, but at any time can go through exclusively verified users through Explore. If you don’t see this option, it may just be because you aren’t verified yet yourself – so get on that.

Another similar filtering option is Tinder U – or Tinder Uni here in the UK. It lets you search specifically for fellow university students, though to take part you’ll have to verify your own student status by adding your university to your profile and then confirming it with an official email address (such as .edu or .ac.uk, with other options for other countries). Then just pick the Tinder U option within Explore and swipe through students to your heart’s content.

Another option is Music Mode. Available only to users who’ve enabled Tinder’s integration with Spotify, this mode plays people’s Anthem – the song they’ve chosen to ‘define them’ – automatically when you land on their profile, giving you an immediate sense of your musical compatibility. You’ll have to have picked your own Anthem for your profile if you want to browse others’ pages with Music Mode enabled though.

Only officially introduced in 2021, Vibes is a silly name for a pretty straightforward features: quizzes. Every now and then users will get a notification that a Vibes event has started in their area, and you’ll also see it in the Explore feed. If you take part, you’ll get to answer a series of personality questions – all with a slightly silly tone – but you only get 48 hours to do so.

If you decide to Vibe, your answers will appear on your profile for the next 72 hours, and they’ll also pop up in the chat window when you’re talking to someone else who took part, giving you a quick ‘n easy conversation starter.

Hot Takes are pretty similar to Vibes, but there are a few key differences. Available worldwide for English language users, they’re available between 6pm and midnight every day, found in Explore.

If you take part, you’ll see a Hot Take prompt pop up. Let your opinion be known, and you’ll be thrown into a chat with someone else who answered the same prompt – though they won’t have necessarily opted for the same answer.

The catch is that chats are timed, so you’ll have to act fast to impress your chat partner and figure out if you’re a match – otherwise they’ll be gone forever.

Face to Face video chat

2020 brought with it one major addition to Tinder: video chat. Dubbed Face to Face, the new option is designed to offer a Covid-safe way to chat directly to new matches without ever leaving the Tinder app. Plus, it offers a few safety features you won’t get if you just switch straight to WhatsApp.

First up, like matching,  both of you have to agree to enable video chat before it becomes an option. There’s a toggle you can hit once you’re comfortable video chatting with a specific match, and they won’t know when you’ve hit it. Once you’ve both enabled it Face to Face unlocks. Oh, and you can also turn this toggle back off whenever you like too, for those days when you know you don’t want to be on camera.

At the start of every call you have to agree to specific behaviour guidelines, and at the end of every call there’s the chance to review it and flag any unwelcome behaviour. The app also requires both of you to enable camera access, so there’s no fear it’ll be one-sided.

To learn more, check out our in-depth tutorial on how to video chat on Tinder

Block your ex

Tinder has also added the option to avoid awkward encounters with your exes (or family & friends…) by blocking specific contacts based on their phone number. 

To block someone, simply go to your profile settings within the app and select from your phone contacts which people you don’t want to see within the app – whether it’s exes you don’t want to run into again, or friends & family you’d simply be a bit embarrassed to see on a dating app.

Any contacts you block won’t appear as a potential match for you in the future (or vice versa), so long as they signed up to Tinder using the matching contact info. This will even work if they’re not currently Tinder members, but sign up in the future.

If you forget to set this up, you also have the option to block a profile when it comes up in the app, before a match, so you can quickly get rid of an ex, friend, or co-worker without worrying about their profile popping up again.

Incognito mode

This is another way to avoid being seen on Tinder by people you don’t want to date – such as a boss or family member.

Enabling incognito mode means that your profile will only be shown to users that you’ve already swiped right on – so if you spot your manager or ex in the app, all you have to do is swipe left to make sure that they don’t see you.

Tinder Online

Tinder may have been one of the first dating apps to move people away from clunky websites, but things have come full circle as Tinder itself moves into your browser.

The company launched  Tinder Online, a web-based version of the app designed to give people access to Tinder even if they don’t own a smartphone – or just don’t happen to have access to one at the moment. Just head to Tinder.com  and sign into your account and you can use all the normal Tinder features – including Super Likes, Boosts, and Rewind – chat with your matches, and even edit your profile.

Best of all, there’s ‘work mode’ – a button that brings up a semi-convincing imitation of a Google Drive document in case your manager picks just the wrong moment to walk past your desk.

Is Tinder Plus worth it?

If you’re serious about trying to use Tinder to make a match, you might want to consider investing in Tinder Plus. This is a premium, paid tier, which offers a few advantages in exchange for a monthly fee.

There are a few benefits to Plus: for one, it makes Tinder ad-free. It also gives you one free Boost per month, and five Super Likes per day, rather than just one. 

Plus-exclusive features include a ‘rewind’ button so that you can re-do your last swipe in case you accidentally went the wrong way, and Tinder Passport, which lets you change your location – this is useful if you’re planning a trip and want to match with a few people before you arrive.

Arguably the biggest benefit of Tinder Plus is that it lifts the ‘right swipe limit’. Normal users can only swipe right on so many users per day before they have to wait 12 hours – a way of discouraging people from trying to match with every profile they come across. There’s no fixed number of swipes you’re allowed, as it’s determined by an algorithm based on your typical behaviour, but either way, Tinder Plus users can swipe to their heart’s content.

So how much does Tinder Plus cost? Again, there’s no easy answer. Pricing is determined for each user by Tinder’s algorithm, with prices based in large part on your age: the younger you are, the cheaper it costs. It can reportedly range from as low as $1.49/£1.49 per month right up to $14.99/£14.99 per month – with discounts if you commit to six months or a year in advance.

Is Tinder Gold worth it?

If Plus isn’t enough for you Tinder has a second paid tier called Tinder Gold, which offers all of the features of Tinder Plus, and two big additions: Likes You and Top Picks.

Likes You does what it sounds like – it lets you see who’s already swiped right on you, so you can make sure to pay special attention to the profiles of people who you know like you before you commit to swiping in return. You can see a full list of every profile that’s liked you so that you can browse through and swipe either way on them while knowing they’re interested in you.

Top Picks is a more recent Gold feature, which shows you a daily selection of profiles selected specifically for you by the Tinder algorithm. You’ll see a few picks each day (but they disappear after 24 hours), with each including a highlight drawn from their profile – things like ‘Doctor’ or ‘Adventurer’. You can also pay extra to access additional Picks each day.

Beyond those two big features, Gold also offers a few more granular controls to who you see, and who sees you. You can use the default algorithm to pick profiles or ask the app to prioritise accounts who’ve been active recently. In turn, you can also restrict your profile so that it doesn’t show your age or distance, and even restrict it so that only people you’ve already Liked see your profile in the first place.

As for pricing for Gold, expect to pay an extra $4.99/£3.49 per month on top of Tinder Plus, with discounts for longer commitments – and, again, variations depending on age.

Is Tinder Platinum worth it?

For the real big spenders, there’s an even higher tier available: Tinder Platinum.

As you’d expect this includes everything you get with Tinder Gold, but also throws in another two features: Priority Likes and Message Before Match.

Priority Likes essentially guarantee that your Like will be seen before non-Platinum subscribers, pushing you to the top of the stack for any potential matches, meaning your profile is more likely to be seen.

Message Before Match is a bigger change for Tinder, and allows you to attach a short message – up to 140 characters – to your Super Likes. Note that you can still send Super Likes without a message, and that this only allows you to send the one message, not bombard someone with chat-up lines before they even Like you back.

Author: Dominic Preston , Deputy Editor

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How to contact Tinder

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Tinder, the popular dating app, has become an integral part of many people’s social lives. However, there may come a time when you need to contact Tinder for various reasons, such as account issues, technical glitches, or security concerns. In this article, we will provide you with all the information you need on how to contact Tinder and get the help you need. So, whether you’re a regular user of Tinder or someone who’s just starting out, keep reading to learn how to contact Tinder and resolve any issues you may have with the app.

How to Contact Tinder: A Step-by-Step Guide

If you’re a Tinder user, you may have encountered issues with the app or have questions that need to be answered. In such cases, it’s essential to know how to contact Tinder customer support. In this article, we’ll walk you through the various ways you can reach out to Tinder and get the help you need.

1. Contacting Tinder through the App

Tinder has an in-app customer support feature that allows you to contact them directly. To access this feature, follow these steps:

– Open the Tinder app on your device. – Tap on your profile icon in the top left corner of the screen. – Scroll down and tap on “Settings.” – Scroll down again and tap on “Contact Tinder.”

From here, you can select the issue you’re experiencing and send a message to Tinder’s customer support team. They will respond to your query as soon as possible.

2. Contacting Tinder through Email

If you prefer to contact Tinder through email, you can send a message to their customer support team at [email protected]. When emailing Tinder, make sure to include as much detail about your issue as possible, including your username, the device you’re using, and any error messages you’ve encountered.

3. Contacting Tinder through Twitter

Another way to contact Tinder is through their Twitter handle, @Tinder. You can send them a direct message with your query, and they will respond as soon as possible. However, keep in mind that their Twitter account may not be monitored 24/7, so it might take longer to get a response.

4. Contacting Tinder through Facebook

Tinder also has a Facebook page where you can send them a message with your query. Their Facebook page is @tinderapp, and they usually respond within a few hours. However, like their Twitter account, they may not be available 24/7.

5. Contacting Tinder through their Website

If you prefer to contact Tinder through their website, you can visit their help center at https://www.help.tinder.com/hc/en-us. Here, you can browse through their FAQs, which may help you resolve your issue without having to contact customer support. If you can’t find a solution, you can submit a request by clicking on “Contact Us” at the bottom of the page.

6. Contacting Tinder through Snail Mail

If you prefer the old-fashioned way of contacting customer support, you can send a letter to Tinder’s headquarters. Their address is:

Tinder Attn: Customer Service 8833 W. Sunset Blvd. #907 West Hollywood, CA 90069

Keep in mind that this method may take longer to get a response, and it’s not the most efficient way to contact customer support.

In conclusion, there are several ways to contact Tinder’s customer support team, including through the app, email, Twitter, Facebook, their website, and even snail mail. However, the quickest and most efficient way to get a response is through the in-app customer support feature. If you encounter an issue with Tinder, don’t hesitate to reach out to their customer support team for assistance.

Frequently Asked Questions

### How can I contact Tinder customer support?

You can contact Tinder customer support by going to the app’s settings menu and selecting “Contact Us.” From there, you can submit a request and a member of the Tinder team will get back to you as soon as possible.

### Is there a phone number I can call to contact Tinder customer support?

No, there is no phone number available to call Tinder customer support. However, you can submit a request through the app’s settings menu or reach out to them on social media platforms such as Twitter or Facebook.

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How Do I Use Tinder To Find A Relationship?

Tinder may be one of the most well-known and widely used dating platforms currently on the market, and it’s not just for young adults. Optimizing your Tinder profile can help you find more compatible matches, which can increase your odds of finding a serious relationship through the app. It’s generally recommended to choose a high-quality profile picture and add other pictures that can show others who you are. You might take the time to craft an accurate, concise, and intriguing bio, as well as note any information about your education, career, or accomplishments that may show others you could be a good relationship partner. If you’re experiencing challenges related to dating and romantic relationships, working with a therapist in person or online may be beneficial.

What is the Tinder dating app?

Occasionally, the app offers events like Swipe Night, an interactive event where members swipe to move a story forward. Their choices also impact who they match with at the end of the journey.

Features available on Tinder Gold, Plus, and Platinum

• Upon opening the popular dating app Tinder, the front page will normally display users in your area depending on your sexual orientation, age range, and distance limits. The number of users displayed may increase, decrease, and change as you swipe through these users and new ones arrive in the area.
• If you find someone you might be interested in, you can click on a user's profile picture and scroll down to read their profile and learn more about them.
• If you like someone, you can swipe right on their photo or press the green “check” button.
• If you aren't interested in certain Tinder profiles, you can swipe left on their photo or press the red “X” button.
• If you are very interested in someone, you can press the blue heart in the middle. 
• When two users swipe right on one another, it’s a match, and Tinder notifies both parties so they can begin to communicate.

Tinder and other dating apps tips to attract more potential partners

There are generally some common formulas used on dating sites to help people land more dates and find success in their dating lives, whether you’re a free user or have an upgraded account. Here are some of the most common tips for dating app users seeking to attract more potential partners, which may increase the chances of finding a relationship.

1. Leave a good impression with a great profile picture on your Tinder account

Users swipe for a variety of reasons, but you may be familiar with the types of profile pictures that often lead people to swipe left or “pass” on a profile. For example, shirtless profile pictures, fuzzy profile pictures, and pictures with a large group of people usually fall into this category. You can leave a good impression on the other users on the app by taking a clear, semi-professional profile picture that gives them an idea of who you are. Smiles often perform better than serious expressions!

2. Follow up your main Tinder picture with others of equal quality

3. write a brilliant tinder bio section (short, sweet, and polite), 4. be realistic in both your photos and your description.

There may be nothing more disappointing than reading a profile or seeing a picture on a dating app and then meeting someone in real life, only to discover that they are not quite who you expected them to be. Yes, it may be helpful to focus on some of your best traits, and you probably want to impress your potential dating partners. However, as a general rule, you should never mislead someone else through fake or deceptive profile pictures and descriptions. That may be the quickest way to end a potential relationship before it even begins.

Include job information and any other information that will improve your status

Although people may not judge you solely on your profession, education, or status in society, it can help to add this type of information to your profile. Make sure to include your current job and any other information that says, "Hey, I am a mature adult who has worked very hard to get to where I am in my life." This type of information on the most popular dating app may impress people with a mutual interest and encourage them to swipe right!

No matter how much effort you spend building a profile, however, it may all come down to  chemistry and connectivity . You can have the most dates out of anyone on the platform, but that's usually no guarantee that these dates will lead to something permanent. That’s why it can be helpful to work with a licensed professional to ensure you’re ready for a relationship.

Seeking professional support

Dating and serious relationships are often challenging. If you’re experiencing any difficulties in this area of your life, it may be beneficial to seek support from a licensed therapist. Still, a clinical office setting may not always be the most comfortable environment for talking about your love life. Some people prefer a less intimidating setting, such as the one provided by online therapy platforms. 

With online therapy , you can discuss details of your dating life and relationship history from the comfort of your home, which can make you feel more at ease while opening up about potentially vulnerable subjects. Plus, scheduling online sessions can be more convenient, as you can typically set appointments outside of typical office hours. 

Although more research may be needed regarding the efficacy of online therapy for online dating success, a growing body of evidence generally suggests that online therapy can be just as effective as in-person therapy in addressing and treating a wide variety of mental health disorders and concerns.

How do you use Tinder?

People use the Tinder app for various reasons, and motivations can differ from one individual to another. Here are some common reasons why people use Tinder :

• Dating and Relationships
• Casual Dating or Hookups
• Socializing and Making Friends
• Exploring New Connections
• Validation and Attention
• Entertainment
• Travel and Networking

​​Girls, like individuals of any gender, may use Tinder for a variety of reasons, and these can differ from person to person. Here are some common reasons why a girl might use Tinder :

• Dating and Relationships: Like anyone else, a girl may use Tinder to find compatible matches, potential romantic partners, and explore dating opportunities. This could range from casual dating to more serious, long-term relationships.
• Casual Connections: Some individuals, including girls, may be interested in more casual or non-committal interactions. They might use the Tinder explore page to meet people for short-term relationships, hookups, or simply to socialize.
• Meeting New People: Tinder provides a platform for meeting individuals outside of one's regular social circles. Girls might use the app to connect with people they wouldn't encounter in their day-to-day lives.
• Exploring Preferences: Girls may use Tinder to explore their preferences and learn more about what they are looking for in a partner. The app allows users to specify their preferences in terms of age, location, and interests in user’s profile.
• Networking or Socializing: Some girls may use Tinder for networking or socializing purposes, whether it's meeting professionals in their field, connecting with like-minded individuals, or making new friends.
• Validation and Attention: Like anyone using a dating app, girls might appreciate the validation and attention that comes from matches and positive interactions. This can contribute to feelings of attractiveness and self-esteem.
• Curiosity and Fun: Girls may use Tinder out of curiosity or for entertainment. Exploring the app and engaging with matches can be a fun and lighthearted way to spend time.

Why do guys use Tinder?

Guys use the popular dating app Tinder for a variety of reasons, and motivations can vary from person to person. Here are some common reasons why guys might use Tinder:

• Dating and Relationships: Many guys, like individuals of any gender identity, use Tinder with the intention of finding potential romantic partners. They may be looking for anything from casual dating to serious, long-term relationships.
• Casual Dating or Hookups: Some guys are specifically interested in more casual and non-committal relationships. Tinder's design allows users to express their preferences, and some guys may be seeking short-term connections or hookups.
• Socializing and Making Connections: Tinder is not exclusively for romantic relationships, and some guys use it to expand their social circles or make new friends. They may be open to various types of connections beyond romance.
• Meeting New People: Guys might use Tinder as a way to meet new people, especially those they wouldn't encounter in their usual social environments. This can be an opportunity to connect with individuals from different backgrounds or with common interests.
• Networking: In some cases, guys use Tinder for networking purposes, such as meeting professionals in their industry or connecting with people who have similar career interests.
• Entertainment: The process of swiping and the excitement of potential matches can be entertaining, and some guys use Tinder as a way to pass the time or have fun.
• Validation and Attention: Like anyone using a dating app, guys might appreciate the validation and attention that comes from matches and positive interactions. This can contribute to feelings of attractiveness and self-esteem.
• Exploring Preferences: Guys may use Tinder to explore their preferences in terms of the qualities they are looking for in a partner. The app allows users to customize their preferences based on age, location, and interests.

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• Dating: Many users on Tinder are looking for traditional dating experiences, including the possibility of establishing serious, long-term relationships. Individuals seeking meaningful connections and genuine romance use the app to find compatible partners for dating.
• Hookups and Casual Relationships: Tinder gained early popularity for its user-friendly interface and the ease with which users can express their interest in more casual or non-committal relationships. Some individuals use Tinder specifically for casual dating, hookups, or short-term encounters.
• Age Range: While Tinder has a minimum age requirement (usually 18), users span a broad range of ages, from young adults to older individuals.
• Relationship Goals: Users on Tinder may be seeking different types of relationships, including casual dating, serious relationships, or simply social connections . The app caters to a spectrum of relationship preferences.
• Diverse Backgrounds: Tinder users come from diverse cultural, ethnic, and socioeconomic backgrounds. The app's availability makes it popular across various demographics. 
• Professionals: Individuals from various professions and career fields use Tinder. Some may be busy professionals looking to connect with others outside their work environment.
• Students: Given its popularity among younger demographics, Tinder is often used by college students and young adults.
• Urban and Rural Users: Tinder is used by people in both urban and rural areas, offering a platform for individuals regardless of their geographic location.
• Varied Interests: Users on Tinder have diverse interests, hobbies, and lifestyles. The app allows individuals to express their preferences and interests through their profiles.
• Tech-Savvy Individuals: Tinder is a mobile app, and its users tend to be comfortable with technology and mobile dating platforms.

The safety of using Tinder, like any online platform, depends on various factors, and users should take precautions to ensure a stable and positive experience. Here are some  tips for staying safe on Tinder :

• Safeguard Classified Information: Avoid discussing sensitive information such as your home address, phone number, or financial details on your profile. Keep such information personal until you've established trust with someone.
• Verify Profiles: While Tinder has features like profile verification, it's still possible for users to create fake profiles. Be cautious and use your judgment. If something seems off or too good to be true, it's wise to proceed with caution.
• Choose Public Meeting Places: When meeting someone for the first time, choose public locations for your safety. Inform a friend or family member about your plans and consider arranging your transportation.
• Trust Your Instincts: If something feels uncomfortable or suspicious, trust your instincts and take appropriate action. It's okay to end a conversation or date if you feel uneasy.
• Report Suspicious Activity: Most dating apps, including Tinder, have reporting features. If you encounter any suspicious or inappropriate behavior, use the reporting tools provided by the app.
• Use Video Calls: Before meeting in person, consider having a video call to get a better sense of the person. This can add an extra layer of verification.
• Be Mindful of Scams: Be aware of common online dating scams. Avoid sending money to someone you've just met online and be cautious if they request financial assistance or send you any external links.
• Curiosity or Boredom: Some married individuals may use Tinder out of curiosity, boredom, or a desire for excitement. They might be seeking a change or looking for something new and different.
• Seeking Validation: Individuals in a marriage may use Tinder to seek validation, attention, or a boost to their self-esteem. Positive interactions on the platform can provide a sense of desirability.
• Lack of Satisfaction in Marriage: Marital dissatisfaction or a lack of fulfillment in a current relationship might drive some individuals to seek connections outside of their marriage on platforms like Tinder.
• Entertainment or Distraction: Married individuals may use Tinder as a form of entertainment or distraction. The swiping and matching process can be engaging and provide a temporary escape.
• Emotional Needs: Some individuals may turn to Tinder to fulfill emotional needs that they feel are lacking in their marriage. This could include seeking companionship, understanding, or emotional support.
• Miscommunication or Misunderstanding: In some cases, a partner might use Tinder without the knowledge or consent of their spouse. This could result from miscommunication, misunderstandings, or differences in expectations within the marriage.
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Have you noticed that you're not getting as many matches on Tinder as you used to and think you need to reset your account? You might be worried that your Elo score is wrong, but, good news! Tinder doesn't rely on that scoring method but instead uses its own algorithm to match you with others! [1] X Research source Resetting your Tinder account seems irrelevant to getting your account better matches since the algorithm learns as you use the dating app. In fact, resetting your account too many times or within a short time frame can get your account shadowbanned ! This wikiHow article shows you how to reset your Tinder account safely and gives you tips to get better and more matches .

Things You Should Know

• Tinder no longer relies on your Elo score to match you with people, so the best way to get more matches is to be active on the platform!
• The best way to reset a Tinder account is by waiting 92 days after you delete it before making a new account.
• If you don't need to reset your account, you can beef up your profile by using good photos, including an interesting bio, and more.

Resetting if You Log in with Facebook

• Use this method to reset your Tinder account if you use Facebook to log in. You can do these steps on either an iPhone or Android.
• The safest and best way to reset your Tinder account is to wait 3 months or 92 days after deleting your account and making a new one.
• If you do this too quickly (within 24 hours) or too often, Tinder will flag your account as spam or a bot and might shadowban your account temporarily or completely ban you.
• In order for a complete reset to work, you'll need new information, like a new email account, a new Google Play Store account or Apple ID, a new phone number, and a new IP address.

• The goal here is to disconnect Facebook and Tinder so it doesn't use the same data when you install the app again.

• Tap Remove in the pop-up to confirm your choice.

• If you want to be really safe, reset your phone or get a new one before continuing.
• If you're using the same internet connection that you had when you uninstalled the app, such as your home network that hasn't been restarted, restart your router now to get a new IP address .

• If you're using a new Google Play account, create a new Google account then switch to that account in Google Play.
• If you're using an Apple ID, create your new Apple ID and use it to re-install the app.

• If you didn't wait for 92 days, or 3 months, before creating your account, you'll need to enter a new phone number.

• Don't use the same pics or text from your previous profile as it might be flagged by the Tinder algorithm .

Resetting if You Log In with a Phone Number

• Use this method on Android or iPhone if you use a phone number to log in, not a Facebook account.

Tips for More Matches on Tinder

• You can also check out The Best Tinder Bios & Tips for Guys for the best bios guys can use.

• Read Tinder Hacks You Need to Know: How to Make the Most of the App and Beat the Algorithm for more tips on getting more matches.
• How to Start a Conversation on Tinder: The Best Opening Lines has the best Tinder conversation starters for you.

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Dating apps have become something of a necessity for many single people.  

Of course, it’s still possible to meet someone the old-fashioned way with a meet-cute worthy of a sappy holiday movie, but dating apps and websites have made their mark and paved the way for many people to find a match. 

One in ten adults who are either married, living with their partner, or in a committed relationship met their significant other through a dating site or app, a 2023 Pew Research Center study found. 

Dating sites and apps provide a catalog of people to choose from, offering hope of making a connection worthy of a meetup in the real world.

However, a Pew Research Center study found that nearly one-third of people who have used dating apps have safety concerns, so it’s no surprise that the idea of meeting a stranger can be unsettling for some.

Watch this video for tips on how to stay safe while using dating apps.  

Verification Badges 

Many dating apps have added verification badges, which are similar to the ones used on social media platforms. They come in a variety of forms but look for something like a check mark or the word "verified" near the person's name. 

Dating platforms use different ways to verify that the person in the pictures is real. For instance, Bumble and Hinge use selfie verification methods that biometrically compare a real-time selfie to the photos in your profile. 

If there's a profile that piques your interest but isn't verified, that's ok! A lack of verification doesn't mean the profile is fake.

Video Calling 

It’s not uncommon to be wary about sharing your phone number with someone you have never met. 

Apps, including Bumble and The League, offer in-app video calling as an alternative to revealing your contact details.

The video calling option appears once you’ve matched with someone, but there may be some prerequisites to use it.

• On Bumble (the app known for women making the first move), women can video call a match immediately, whereas men can call once the woman sends a message.
• Tinder requires both participants to opt-in to the feature before either party can initiate a call. 

Facebook Groups

“Are We Dating The Same Guy” Facebook groups are designed to help people discover any “tea or red flags” on someone they are dating or might meet.

The idea behind these groups is to inform people in cities around the country about potential suitors, not to gossip about people.

The groups have rules around acceptable behavior inside and outside of the page. 

Do’s include: 

• Sharing the first name and photograph of the person you're curious about. 
• Asking for dating or relationship advice.

Don’ts include: 

• Sharing personal details, like social media handles, phone numbers or addresses. 
• Screenshotting posts and sharing them outside of the page. 
• Commenting on a person’s looks. 

If you are part of one of these groups, be mindful of what you are posting on a semi-public platform.

Some members of the Chicago-area group are involved in an invasion of privacy and defamation lawsuit filed by a man who was negatively spoken about in the group.

Share Location

So, you’ve arranged to go on a first date. Congratulations! 

Once you’ve decided on a place to meet, share your location with someone you trust and let them know your plans.

Many smartphones have a built-in feature to share your location with someone using the same operating system. You can also use apps like Google Maps or WhatsApp to share your location across different operating systems.

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'Toxic and warped' conwoman, 26, who left NHS worker she met on Tinder homeless and jobless after promising him a new life in Dubai before conning him out of thousands is spared jail

• Sian White falsely claimed she was a wealthy medical lawyer with a rich father 

A conwoman who left an NHS worker she met on Tinder homeless and jobless after promising him a new life in Dubai before conning him out of thousands has been spared jail. 

Sian White, 26, falsely claimed she was a wealthy medical lawyer with a millionaire father and concocted a series of fictional characters to convince the man his exciting Emirates opportunity was legit.

But Newcastle Crown Court heard the job and accommodation he was offered never existed, and the flights and hotel he forked out for were never reimbursed. Instead, White had used his personal details to apply for 22 loans, credit cards and bank accounts.

White, of Pickering, North Yorkshire, admitted controlling and coercive behaviour and fraud in relation to the man.

She also pleaded guilty to fraud offences in relation to landlords, housemates and other unsuspecting people she ripped off and has previous convictions for dishonesty.

Mr Recorder Toby Hedworth KC told her: 'You have demonstrated the ability to be one of the most compulsively dishonest defendants to appear before this court and that's saying something.

'You employed extremely sophisticated methods to defraud perfectly ordinary people who were either offering accommodation, were sharing accommodation, were seeking accommodation or just people you sought to take advantage of.'

The recorder said the victim at the centre of the Dubai scam was 'well and truly conned in a wholesale way'.

Prosecutor Michael Cahill told the court White met up with the man in person  in August 2020, after they met on the online dating site, and she claimed to live in a plush city apartment in Newcastle.

Mr Cahill said: 'She presented as a young, successful professional.

'She told him her father was a successful millionaire property developer who owned property around the country. The millionaire father was fictional.'

The court heard as their relationship developed, the man wanted to move closer to Newcastle and White claimed her father would let him a home in the upscale suburb of Jesmond.

Mr Cahill said: 'He began to receive text messages from a mobile phone number who introduced himself as the father, Dave. In fact, it was the defendant.'

The court heard 'Dave' offered a series of potential homes to the victim but there always ended up being a problem that stopped him from moving in.

After sharing his 'dreams and ambitions' with White, he eventually, in January 2021, moved into the lavish Central Lofts in the heart of Newcastle and was given a tenancy agreement from 'Dave' for his new home.

Within days he was then offered the chance to work abroad, doing social media for a sports management company in Dubai and quit his NHS job to accept.

The court heard 'Dave' said there was an issue with the flights he booked and the victim spent £600 to get new ones for himself and White, with the promise he would be reimbursed.

From February 1, 2021 until March 31, 2021 the couple were in Dubai.

Mr Cahill told the court: 'During this time she created other characters to further her fraud. There was James the manager who was contacting him to set up employment, orgainise blood tests. There was Sophie the HR manager.'

While in Dubai, the victim received a call about his car being parked at Central Lofts, which he thought was his home, but turned out to be a 30-day rental taken out by White.

Mr Cahill said from that point 'her lies began to unravel', by which time the victim was homeless, jobless and had spent all of his savings.

The victim said in an impact statement he now feels 'cold, detatched and suspicious' towards people.

He described White as a 'toxic and warped individual' and added: 'So much of her life has been lying, stealing, deceiving and defrauding.'

The fraud offences White admitted relate to £1,000 worth of purchases made on a housemate's bank cards in shared accommodation, using over £100 on another roommate's card to book an 'escape room trip', failing to pay £1,160 rent at another property, both in 2018.

White also advertised a room to rent in Wakefield in 2018 and accepted a £395 deposit from a student who was then left out of pocket and unable to move in.

In 2019 she posed as a law firm employee to rent a property belonging to a doctor, using forged references then failed to pay £4,375 in rent.

When the owner finally got control back of his home he needed to replace carpets and said there was 'rubbish everywhere'.

In 2020 White met up with a woman who she left £118 out of pocket in a trasaction over false eyelashes.

That same year White met with a woman who had formed a Facebook group for people interested in spending summers in Majorca.

White took the woman's phone and used her details to transfer £11,000 from her mother's bank account, which was eventually recovered.

White also met up with an ex but 'forgot' her card during a day out and said she would pay half but never sent the money. She then used his details to apply for a Lloyds TSB bank account and a Capital One credit card in his name.

She also failed to pay rent at another privately rented accommodation, where the owner again found 'rubbish everywhere', mouldy takeaway food, sanitary products and bloodstained bedsheets when she finally gained access.

Jeremy Barton, defending, said White has now enrolled on a pregraduate university course and has insight into her offending.

Mr Barton said: 'She has a number of issues, feeling the need to impress, embelish and make herself look better than she is.'

Mr Barton said White has help from a support network and has been in no further trouble.

Recorder Hedworth agreed there had been a 'radical change' in White's behaviour and there is suggestion she could have a personality disorder.

He sentenced her to two years, suspended for two years, with rehabilitation requirements and 150 hours unpaid work.